The Cruel Paradox of the Vanier Way

Above the window in my office hangs a crucifix — and beside it, a cherished photo of Jean Vanier and myself.  It was taken after an interview I did with him in Trosly France, during the filming of “The Vanier Way”.  In his work with the physically and intellectually disabled, he was praised by millions for his unconditional love for the most vulnerable in society. His work was unquestioned until the disturbing and heart-breaking news of this past Saturday morning. 

Like all of you, I was in shock and disbelief on learning of Jean Vanier’s double life. I was utterly sickened for the women that came forward with reports of sexual abuse.  I pray for their healing.  These actions need to be called out for what they are: diabolical.  May God have mercy on his soul.   I am grateful to the investigators and to L’Arche for being forthright and transparent.  

Yes, I wept on Saturday.  I felt completely betrayed by the hero I had made a film about and spoke so highly of in my talks around the world. While I will continue to speak of the many selfless people of L’Arche and of the core members, I will not speak of their founder again. This is the second great tragedy of it all: the good people of L’Arche must live under his tainted shadow, as do the the schools and institutions that still bear his name.  

While I will forever stand by the themes and messages in the “The Vanier Way” film,  I have removed it from my list of productions out of respect for the victims.  

The once cherished picture in my office has been taken down. 

Above my window, I gaze only at the crucifix now.  And rightly so.  Jesus Christ is the only One who will never let us down. The unfailing Prophet of Hope.